I meant that I think you are being too hard on yourself. You say you cannot care for other flowers because you could not care for yours. That is so black and white that it does not take into account circumstance.

[He motioned to her.]

Tell me. When you lost your flower was it because of outside interference? Was it at the hands of someone else, indirectly or directly? Are you trying to take responsibility for something that you ultimately could not control?